I'm pretty fed up at the moment with this chap still writing through a solicitor. It's a typical thing when someone's made a big mistake that they cannot let it go. I can see his point but as I used to say to people, "I'd like to see your point of view but I can't get my head that far up your arse!"
It's now making me a little depressed as rather than just walking away, they are firing off stuff at me that isn't really important at all and just causes me stress and isn't necessary but more than that, I now see that some of this is from another hand another person as he isn't the sort to think or act like this of his own volition because it is a series of little traps and frankly, stuff that shouldn't even matter unless there was something else behind it.
So I am coming to the conclusion that there needs to be a new line drawn in this and it will be to turn this around and go into offence not defence from now on. I need to go back to my Sun Tzu Art Of War thinking and act quite differently to the reactive way I have had to so far. I need to start treating this on my terms not on his. He has nothing to give so he'll need to try harder.
It's just so annoying that people act like this but I suppose he's got nothing else to think about and needs to go through these dying actions. I think that the worst part, for him, is that he's lost some real friends and allies but has probably gained some Worm Tongue or Tongues who are making him do their bidding. I cannot help him anymore, all he did was betray my trust and became disloyal, back stabbing and undervalued the work I had done on his behalf. Now hiding, he snipes back as if he is in the higher moral position, in the right and on the moral high ground.
Dear reader, he 'should' know me well enough to realise that it's not going to be tolerated for much longer given the brutal attack originally instigated. This second approach is disguised on a bit more conciliatory but hides its true intent between the lines. It's an old trick - he forgets, despit me having told him many times in the past, that I used to this stuff for a living.
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