Sorry, we've somewhat deviated from Bladder Cancer so let's get back on track a bit.
It's been 2 or 3 years since I was discharged after some 17 years of treatments and reviews. So let's review where we are:
- I'm not dead yet! Yes, I survived and I lived to tell the tale. My "I'm Not Dead Tee Shirt" is still around, still fits but is looking a bit faded now.
- It's mentally and physically debilitating - I doubt that even now I'm fully over it mentally or physically but I am still here, still living life but not my best life. I need to do that.
- I'm getting my weight back down - I ate and drank far too much and lock down didn't help
- I am a totally different person than I was. I'm actually more tolerant than I used to be (that may surprise you reading my posts). I don't get so worked up about things now, they will be what they will be and I cannot change what is happening.
- I don't overthink situations anymore and whilst I'll not break out of the way I work and think, at least I'm not in the situation where my mind is buzzing and calculating all the time.
- I still find myself wasting time at this PC and procrastinating too.
So I think that clearly it's survivable and you can work your way through it. It took longer and perhaps 7 years longer to get discharged but they were keeping their eye on me so I suppose it isn't too bad apart from the extra operations (that were not necessary but you never know).
I feel that I am a little ungrateful for the extra life I've been given and that needs to change. The biggest rut you have to get over is the rut you are in of course.
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