Do People Actually Think Before They Act Anymore?

 I wonder whether people actually think before they act at all?  Some make the most curious decisions and make the most inappropriate suggestions.  They then double down on a decision that will actually end in their own embarrassment or to their own detriment as they haven't considered any other position other than their own.

What I always enjoyed when I was at work 20 years or so ago was how someone would purse a course that was vainglorious, predicated on their own world view of the situation and their belief in the "justice" and right of their position.  Often the action were not the correct ones and furthermore they had ignored advice, fired a letter off before reflection or perhaps had reflected on it but ignored the obvious flaws of their argument.  It happens, you are convinced that your truth is the only way of looking at something.

In cases like this it was always a good strategy to take your time to analyse what they were trying to achieve by their actions and work out what you were going to do about it.  Seeking clarification sometimes works to reflect back the errors of their argument but not to provide them with any ammunition to solve the problem or have it used against you.  

I think it is Sun Tzu or Bonaparte who said something like "Never interrupt your enemy when he is making a mistake" and for good reason.  Your position is made far stronger as they make mistakes, they cannot support their allegations, their arguments fall apart on cross examination. Never give up your own high ground, have all the answers, the documents and evidence to hand and know what you are going to do but don't let on. 

I find it particularly strange that they don't give up and potentially you can destroy their arguments time after time.  

For me it's such a waste of time and energy defending but if you know how they are thinking and what "Gotchas" they might have planned you can easily run rings around them and deliver the coup de grâce and yet still some fight on for some reason, vanity, too thick to realise their case has been destroyed very often by their own attitude and ineptitude too. 

I suppose we have to put up with this pathetic, ill advised, unthinking nonsense.  One of my favourite sayings I used to use a lot in meetings after fending off another ill thought through attack from these was to get the decision in my favour and ask the now failed opponent - looking seriously at them as they realised their case was dismissed "Don't you ever get tired of being wrong?"  If nothing else it made ME feel better after all the grief they had fired at me.