Painting Oneself Into A Corner

 I know that for some people it must be difficult to vent their anger and then actually rationalise things and then make a plan, review it, test it, refine it and have various options before action.  If you don't then you tend to be running mightily fast into.... a brick wall!

There seems to be no overall plan at all, just the revenge cycle.  In each case, there's been no way out (for me) and no win / win outcome.  It's all good news for him and bad for me, no attempt at mediation and a dealing in absolutes and so where I've offered a way forward and a route out of this, he's gone about his business in a full frontal charge, a Light Brigade or Over The Top assault and has only sought that as his answer.

He is now left with his back against the wall, painted into the corner and doesn't realise it.   Convinced he will win and assured of his inevitable victory he cannot see the peril that lies before him.

That's how I'd like to keep him too, full of his impending defeat over his enemy, I hope he has a small celebration planned for after the meeting so that he can pass around his tears and they can collectively commiserate with themselves.  I think I said before that these are the sorts of people you wouldn't want with you in a spot of bother.  They are voting with him because he is their friend and yet none of them can have read the statements (or even have been worried) about his threatening letter to me - containing a physical threat.  So they are all condoning the violence threatened in there and worse still they are not standing up for the right thing, the right reasons.  Not one of them is!  I think that I would not allow myself to do that but then, that's me!

Not one of them has thought of what it actually means to their shares by voting this way.  But then not one of them has in anyway been involved in the business or contributed anything meaningful either in monetary terms or any input whatsoever so I suppose it's academic to them anyway.

I am having to remain neutral about it, difficult as that is, as I have to face off against him and it works to be calm and matter of factual about these things.