and accepting the situation you find yourself in. It's bloody difficult right? I am dealing with betrayal, incompetence and disappointment and it is affecting me but it really shouldn't.
I used to say about driving that if you treat everyone else around you as if they are idiots you will find that you can predict their erratic behaviour, their lack of planning their inability to manoeuvre properly and their downright dangerous actions.
So I must accept that the vast majority of people I interact with are just stupid, dangerous idiots and not be surprised when they do stupid and nasty things. It's the irrationality and the disrespect and sheer evil way that people turn on you for little or no reason. I don't get it and generally they've already taken advantage of me on one way or the other, my friendship, my money. my time and then for them it's perfectly acceptable to just be a complete and utter knob! Then they want to come back for a bit more later!
Oh well, I'm old enough to know better but I've never been someone to not help out but after all these disappointments, perhaps I should know better? I try to be hard nosed about it but I know that I'll help the next person and then a little further down the lone my reward will be to get royally shafted once again. Such is my life. I probably need to say no more often.
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