There is little you can do to resolve it. Not without risking it all or really upsetting someone else or both or other. In reality, it is a combination of things that are giving me problems.
I say problems when of course that is probably not the case at all. Neither are they "opportunities" either!
It probably isn't a complex problem(s) but it affects or is caused by or both someone else. Therein lies the catch of how are they going to react to it all? Knowing them, probably not well at all. No one wants to have their "faults" exposed and certainly not as the cause of my anxiety and happiness.
It's a complex problem and it doesn't help that it has built up and I have allowed it to, over many years.
Quite how I go about this is worrying me, it's a bit like a minefield or one of those fables where the animals (all mortal enemies of each other) have to cross the river in a boat and you have to work out how they manage to do it without attacking each other :-)
Wish me luck!
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